According to Sigmund Freud, someone else is to blame for all our mistakes. The usual suspects are mother, father,etc.
In No Fault Psychology™ they are not to blame, and neither are we. It’s okay to simply say, “I messed up” and learn from it . Then “Next!” Takes a little pressure off, doesn’t it?
Other Than Conscious Communication™ is an outgrowth of No Fault Psychology. Dave Dobson, PhD, who created it, taught that the job of the OTCC is to help us become successful, fulfilled and solve problems.
Most of our patterns of behavior and thought are Other Than Conscious. For example, you cannot consciously lift one foot off the floor. It takes over 660 muscles to simply walk. A child does not learn to walk from a book, manual, television or even parents. While the parents are models for them, the child does the walking. Imagine to trying to consciously to use the 660 muscles it takes for the pattern of walking!
The less we have to think about our performance, the more elegant the performance will be. Consciously using more purposeful methods of responding to the present until they can me accomplished without thinking is the goal of Practicing OTCC™. A car is a very purposeful piece of equipment. Not being rational, a car makes no judgement about the road we direct it to take, if it is safe or not. So it is with that other than conscious part of our mind.
When we appreciate and respect other than communication, we can respond courteously in kind and certainly enhance our effectiveness with others. Dave said,”By your response you can provide a cooperative environment or an antagonistic one. If No Fault stands for one thing, it’s that You are in charge of your response.”
You can successfully use it in Business, Personal, including all Relationships…All. You can be more influential and persuasive. Just imagine being able to outgrow limiting patterns and create new ones easily and elegantly.
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